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Bangkok Woman, 60, Stalks Former Banker for Marriage in Udon Thani

Combination photo of a 60-year-old woman from Bangkok with a suitcase arriving at a house in Udon Thani Province to propose to a man she'd never actually met, left photo taken on Sept. 22, 2025 and right photo taken in May 2025.

UDON THANI What started as an ordinary afternoon in a quiet Udon Thani neighborhood turned into a bizarre confrontation when a 60-year-old woman from Bangkok arrived with a suitcase, determined to marry a man she’d never actually met.

The woman, identified as Mei Hua, had traveled over 560 kilometers on September 22 to reach the home of “Ta,” a 44-year-old former bank employee living in Khlong Charoen community. Armed with luggage full of clothes and unwavering determination, she demanded to enter his house to propose marriage and discuss having children together.

Ta, completely bewildered by the stranger at his door, refused to let her inside. The situation escalated into a prolonged standoff, with Mei Hua growing increasingly frustrated that he wouldn’t even speak with her despite her grand romantic gesture. Police eventually intervened, mediating until the dejected woman finally departed for Bangkok’s airport with her suitcase in tow.

CCTV footage of a 60-year-old Bangkok woman arriving with a suitcase at a stranger’s home in Udon Thani to propose marriage on September 22, 2025.

By the next morning, the extraordinary story had gone viral across Thai social media. A visibly shaken Ta spoke to reporters, revealing this wasn’t their first encounter. “She’s invaded my home three times now,” he explained, recounting previous visits in late 2024 and May 2025. “This was the worst attempt yet.”

The mystery deepened when Ta explained he believes Mei Hua may have discovered him through his Facebook page where he sells puppies. Though she apparently contacted him using various fake names, he never responded to any messages. “I don’t know who she is or where she comes from,” he said, still processing the surreal experience. “She even said if she couldn’t marry me, she’d settle for sperm donation. I was completely confused.”

A 60-year-old woman gets into a vehicle to leave the home of a 44-year-old man after Udon Thani police intervened on September 22, 2025.
Former bank employee ‘Ta’ speaks to media on September 23, denying he knows his 60-year-old suitor and urging her family to seek medical help for her.

The incident has left Ta genuinely fearful. Unable to sleep the night after her visit, he worries about future encounters. “Please stop bothering me,” he pleaded through media. “I have no relationship to offer you. Don’t come back anymore.”

Neighbors confirmed the woman’s persistent behavior, with several witnessing her previous visits. Ms. Cream recalled seeing Mei Hua standing in the rain during earlier attempts to meet Ta. “We told her to stop bothering him, and she agreed, but then came back a third time. I believe she’ll definitely return.”

Another neighbor, Maem, described yesterday’s dramatic confrontation where the struggle between Ta and Mei Hua became so intense that his shirt tore. “We were shocked—why would she do this?” Maem wondered, echoing the community’s bewilderment at the unprecedented situation.

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